The Gathering

The Gathering


Wow we are here again already – the time of year were we are planning our gathering experiences with others be it what ever celebration you are going to have this holiday season. 

We are waiting to all gather with family, friends, and those we love from pretty much most of Australia, hopefully by the time you are reading this all of Australia, even our family and loved ones internationally just in time for the Holiday Season.

I am sitting with fingers crossed – well actually everything I can cross – intending to gather those far and wide from me and make the most of this special time of year.

If you have been following the Bagua for 2021 in my newsletter then you will know that the energy for December is either going to be all in excellent or shutdown and avoid.

Planning on celebrating Christmas or the holiday season The Gathering | Planning on Celebrating Christmas

then you need to be sure you know exactly where to place those gatherings for the best day you can have.

We all know that intentions are one of the biggest factors. Remember you are in control of your Human Luck and how you set those intentions and the outcomes that we create.

How will your gathering go?

So what does it mean, if you want to gather family and friends for a celebration?

You need to be sure to choose one of the most auspicious spaces – this can include your outdoor areas as well.


The best spaces in December in your home are:

The best spaces in December in your home- the gathering


  • South - Victory Qi and Current Abundance
  • WestCurrent Abundance and Heaven Qi
  • East  - Romance, creativity, just be cautious of your wellness with being restrictive of the amount of earth element we add to this area
  • NorthFuture Abundance but remember we also have some unwellness in this space so be careful of how much fire element you add in this zone.

Have loved ones that have passed over this year?

The Gathering | Have loved ones that have passed over this year?

Bring them to the table also, remember them and include them in your gathering then place their photo or items in the North East of your home.

If you are bringing your family together after some time apart, or some worry about blending together, then you will certainly want to avoid the South West this month.

This area has our disagreements and conflict Qi.  If you have no other choice, then bring in all the red Christmas holiday cheers you can with the fire element to suppress the negative Qi.

You want to be sure that you do not bring up those old family favorite conflict starters:

  • like the old saying – no politics and religion,
  • any previous grievances – there will always be another day for those conversations.
  • and anything that will have members of your gathering on the wrong side of the fence.

The South East we have been cautious of for 2021 due to the Emperor’s Qi there and the representation of misfortune for us.

If this is the only space you can accommodate your gathering then be careful that you add no fire element, during the month of December we have conflict Qi in this space also so it is going to be a balancing act for sure.  Do not bring in too much wood or water to this area in December.

You may bring in your metal ornaments and metal colors, you could bring in more Queensland colors of the yellows and lemons which would work really well here.

Keep it as quiet as you can. 

The Gathering | Keep it as quiet as you can

I have a client who has moved their dining table so that they can gather in a more auspicious space due to her limited space. 

We have placed her Christmas tree and gifts in the South East as she has nowhere else to place them though, she has decided that when it’s Santa’s time she will gather the gifts and hand them out to her visitors at the dining table so that they remain in her most positive Qi in her central palace during the gathering.


Back to blog

Feng Shui Your Life with our PACKAGES:

1 of 6